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Institute for Family Studies
Introduction
When it comes to how Artificial intelligence (AI) will affect our lives, the response from industry insiders, as well as the public, ranges from a sense of impending doom to heraldry. We do not yet understand the
long-term trajectory of AI and how it will change society. Something, indeed, is happening to us—and we all know it. But what?
Gen Zers and Millennials are the most active users of generative AI. Many of them, it appears, are turning to AI for companionship. “We talk to them, say please and thank you, and have started to invite AIs into our lives as friends, lovers, mentors, therapists, and teachers,” Melissa Heikkilä wrote in MIT Technology Review. After analyzing 1 million ChatGPT interaction logs, a group of researchers found that “sexual role-playing” was the second most prevalent use, following only the category of “creative composition.” The Psychologist bot, a popular simulated therapist on Character.AI—where users can design their own
“friends”—has received “more than 95 million messages from users since it was created.
According to a new Institute for Family Studies/YouGov survey of 2,000 adults under age 40, 1% of young Americans claim to already have an AI friend, yet 10% are open to an AI friendship. And among young adults who are not married or cohabiting, 7% are open to the idea of romantic partnership with AI.
A much higher share (25%) of young adults believe that AI has the potential to replace real-life romantic relationships.
Furthermore, heavy porn users are the most open to romantic relationships with AI of any group and are also the most open to AI friendships in general. In addition to AI and relationships, the new IFS survey also asked young Americans how they feel about the changes AI technology may bring to society. We find that their reactions to AI are divided. About half of young adults under age 40 (55%) view AI technology as either threatening or concerning, while 45% view it as either intriguing or exciting.
There are complex socio-economic findings, too, with young adults with lower income and less education being more likely than those with higher incomes and more education to fear how AI will affect society. At the same time, this group is more likely than their fellow Americans who are better off to be open to a
romance with AI.
Here are some thoughts.
The Institute for Family Studies recently conducted a survey exploring young adults' attitudes towards AI and relationships. The study, which involved 2,000 adults aged 18-39 in the U.S., reveals some intriguing trends. While most young adults are not yet comfortable with the idea of AI companions, a small but notable portion is open to the concept. About 10% of respondents are receptive to having an AI friend, with 1% already claiming to have one. Among single young adults, 7% are open to the idea of an AI romantic partner.
Interestingly, a quarter of young adults believe that AI could potentially replace real-life romantic relationships in the future. The study found several demographic factors influencing these views. Men, liberals, and those who spend more time online tend to be more open to AI friendships. Additionally, young adults with lower incomes and less education are more likely to fear AI's societal impact but are also more open to AI romance.
The survey also revealed a correlation between pornography use and openness to AI relationships. Heavy porn users are the most receptive to both AI friendships and romantic partnerships. In fact, 35% of heavy porn users believe AI partners could replace real-life romance, compared to only 20% of those who rarely watch porn.
Overall, young adults are divided on AI's future impact, with slightly more than half viewing it as threatening or concerning. The study raises questions about a potential class divide in future relationships, as lower-income and less-educated young adults are more likely to view AI as a destructive force but are also more open to AI romance. These findings suggest a complex and evolving landscape of human-AI interactions in the realm of relationships and companionship.