The Washington Post
Originally posted 24 FED 26Pat Ames is 71 and healthy, and expects to stay that way for years to come. But she’s put a lot of thought into how she wants to die — and when: “If I can’t care for myself,” the Idaho resident said, “I want to be gone long before then.”
Ames has signed papers directing medical providers not to resuscitate her if she stops breathing or her heart gives out. She’s told her younger brother of her plans. And she’s got a passport and money she set aside years ago so that if it comes down to it, she can travel to a country where physician-assisted suicide is legal, even when death is not imminent.
“I will hop on a plane and end it under my conditions,” she said. “Looking out a window at a forest.”
More U.S. states are making physician-assisted suicides available — although only under narrow circumstances — and both defenders and critics of the practice say they see a growing discussion among baby boomers, who are mostly in their 60s and 70s, about what role, if any, it should play in end-of-life decision-making.
Oregon, the first state to enact an assisted-suicide law in 1997, extended the practice to nonresidents in 2023. Delaware, Illinois and New York legalized assisted suicide in recent months. And at least 15 states are expected to weigh similar legislation this year, although it is permitted only when people are terminally ill with just six months or less to live. They also must be mentally competent — disqualifying anyone with advanced dementia — and be able to ingest the prescribed life-ending drugs on their own.
Other countries, including Canada, Belgium and the Netherlands, have made the practice even more readily available, allowing doctors to administer lethal injections to patients who doctors say face unremitting suffering with no hope of improvement, whether death is imminent or not.
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This article examines the growing conversation among American baby boomers around medical assistance in dying and end-of-life autonomy. As more U.S. states (including Oregon, Delaware, Illinois, and New York) move to legalize the practice under carefully defined conditions, older adults are increasingly weighing their options in response to concerns about dignity, financial burden, and the perceived inadequacy of the American elder care system.
Supporters emphasize personal autonomy and the desire to avoid prolonged suffering, while critics raise moral concerns about the potential for vulnerable populations to feel pressured toward death as a cost-saving measure.
The piece also highlights the broader systemic issues at play, including the U.S.'s comparatively low investment in long-term care and social services, suggesting that the interest in medical assistance in dying is, in part, a reflection of deeper gaps in how the country supports its aging population.








